Monday, February 18, 2008

Reached My breaking point

Ok it finally happened For those of you who have kept up with all my rantings you know the trouble I have been having with Frank and his kids. After taking a long look I realized that things started getting worse after his daughter came to live with us at christmas. As much as I love this child she has pushed me so far that I have finally broke ( which takes Alot). I like to think I am a very tolerant person. I take a lot of crap and very seldom blow my top. Well last night I blew and it was not a pretty thing. After she arived home 9 hours after she was told to come home her Dad anounces she is grounded for two weeks from the phone for being late( which I thinkis very unfair because Justin was 1 hour late and was grounded for a month). Kelsey yells " im just going to go kive with my Mom again cause she will let me do what ever I want". I let it go, then my brother came to pick up his girls who I had babysat all day, I cooked dinner and we all sat down to eat, she refuses to come out of her room, she wants nothing to do with a witch like me. That was it I picked up the phone took it to her and told her to call her mother to come get here I didn't want her here anymore. then turned to her Dad and said if you don't like it pack and go too. Well he didn't go but she is going back to her mothers house. I feel a little bad for sending her back but I had to start putting my kids 1st again. And who knows maybe this is the first step in taking my life back.

3 comments:

Melissa said...

My Beautiful Cousin- Sometimes you need to blow up before things can get better. Any woman, even one as amazing and strong as you are, would crack after having all the stress and expectations thrown in their direction that you have. Take some time for you. DEMAND IT. You deserve it. A massage, an ice cream dripping in carmel WITHOUT any one else around, a glass of wine and a hot bubble bath... YOU TIME. I love you and miss you bunches!

Anonymous said...

MY DEAR SWEET BEST FRIEND HOW I HAVE PRAYED FOR YOU TO SEE THE LIGHT... YOU ARE SO LOVING SO GIVING... THAT IS ALL YOU HAVE DONE GAVE GAVE AND GAVE THEN GAVE SOME MORE. FRANK NEEDS TO STEP UP AND BE A MAN. THOSE ARE CHILDREN THAT NEED DISIPLINE.. AND YOUR KIDS ARE SUFFERING AS WELL AS YOU AND YOUR HEALTH. I AM HERE I ALWAYS HAVE BEEN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DESIDE. I HAVE COVERED YOU IN PRAYER FOR AWHILE AND I KNOW YOU WILL DO WHAT IS RIGHT..
I LOVE YOU SEE YOU SATURDAY

Unknown said...

I TOO HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU JULES. I KNOW THAT LIFE ISN'T ALWAYS EASY OR FARE. BUT THINGS WILL GET BETTER IN TIME AS YOU KEEP MAKING CORRECT CHOICES FOR YOU & YOUR KIDS. YOU ARE LOVED.

The song for my life